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Archive for April, 2007

Laughter and healing

Posted by Dan on April 18, 2007

Today at TH we had a meeting to discuss what our next Going Deeper topic was going to be as we approach the end of the school year. Since we are about to complete a series on Grief and Loss we decided to take one night and devote it toward laughter. The ability to laugh and enjoy life is very important in relation to grief. People who can learn to laugh again and enjoy life typically have a better chance of dealing with their grief and loss in a healthy way.

We have decided to watch some clean funny movie clips, commercials, and pranks as the “lesson” that night. I have laughed so hard today while “researching” clips online. I even cried after viewing one of the funniest commercials never seen on TV!

“Dumb and Dumber”, “Tommy Boy”, selected clips from “Jack(butt)”, and Brian Regan are just some of the ridiculously funny clips we have found and are going to use. If you have any ideas or know of anything we could find online for free let me know.

Sorry, no Ken Davis (he’s too old) or Mark Lowry (he’s too old as well :) ). It doesn’t have to have a Spiritual emphasis or meaning because we’re just gonna put one after another on the screen and let kids laugh and relax. Shorter is better than longer too. Nothing over 3-4 minutes (unless it can be edited and clipped into smaller pieces). Thanks for your help!
Well, I hope you all have a great day! I look forward to hearing back from you all soon! Send your ideas as a comment to the post that way you can see what other people have posted and not repeat the same one 1o times.

Dan

Update on the “Pages” link

Posted by Dan on April 16, 2007

This week at TreeHouse I am giving a talk on “Where is God when I am suffering?” so I have put my talk on the “Pages” section of my site. It is a Word document because it would have taken a lot of space to write it as a post.

We have been going over the topic of grief lately at TreeHouse and it seems like the more we talk about it the higher the number of tragic events becomes. Last week was a rough week with the 13 day old baby dying so please pray that my words will be able to sink in and the teens here will be able to grow despite all the terrible things going on around them.

Thanks! It’s 70 degrees today and sunny so things are looking better than last week’s snow and cold winds! Talk to you all later!

Dan

“Glory Baby”- Watermark

Posted by Dan on April 11, 2007

I don’t know if any of you have heard of the song “Glory Baby” by Watermark but today at work we were able to identify with the words from the song very well. I will post a link for the words to the song at the end.

One of our TreeHouse alumni had a baby 13 days ago. She had brought the little boy here to TreeHouse 2-3 times already to visit, see staff, and show him off. All throughout the pregnancy she was told the baby was a girl based on the ultrasounds but obviously the doctors were wrong! (Obviously God has a sense of humor!) She was so excited to be a mom and begin her new life with her baby. Since I am the only staff at our TreeHouse with a child I had several conversations with her about the joys of being a parent. She was planning on getting married soon and raising her little bundle of life!

Well, this morning we heard from the girls pastor that the little boy had died during the night. From what we know, the baby had been in bed with her and she may have rolled over on him or he might have suffocated. PLEASE pray for her, for her parents, boyfriend, boyfriends parents, church members, pastor, TreeHouse staff, and everyone else involved. Today has really been somber.

When I heard the news I was totally shocked! I can not even imagine what I would do if that happened to me. I still don’t know what to think or what to say. I just saw this little boy last Tuesday and he was so small, cute, and full of life.

I will end this by saying, DO NOT TAKE LIFE FOR GRANTED! We are so fragile. I know I will have a different perspective on life, on my family, and on how I view God’s sovereignty. I hope you all will pray and lift up everyone involved. Thanks!

Link to the words from “Glory Baby”

http://www.christianlyricsonline.com/artists/watermark/glory-baby.html

Bunnies don’t even lay eggs!!

Posted by Dan on April 5, 2007

OK, last night we had a special TreeHouse event. It was called “It’s more than a bunny!” and it was an experiential room by room journey telling the story of Easter. Each station was in a separate room with a staff person dressed up in New Testament attire. We wanted the kids to experience what it could have felt like to be alive during the Passover Feast week. I just want to take a little bit and tell you about the night. (I want to apologize before hand because I will not be able to adequately describe the actual events that took place. This whole presentation took weeks of planning and the whole day to set it up. If I had video of the events or pictures I would include them to help you truly experience each room to it’s fullest but since I don’t you’ll just have to bare with me.)

It started with the kids going to a room where they heard the story about the sacrificial lamb (which included a real live baby goat), a brief history of the Passover, and a little about some guy named Jesus who had been traveling around teaching and preaching. The story was told by a little girl (it was one of our staff pretending to be a younger girl) named “Hannah”. The focus was on the lamb as the sacrifice and how it signified the payment for sin as well as the importance of the Passover Feast for the Jewish nation.

In the next room the kids met “Peter” the fisherman/disciple. He talked about the Upper Room with Jesus, the Garden of Gethsemane, the failed attempt to “rescue” Jesus from the guards in the garden, and ended with seeing Jesus taken away to be put on trial. He talked about Jesus as a personal friend, someone who he could trust and talk too, as well as describing the events of the betrayal in the garden. The focus of “Peter’s” talk was to show that Jesus was the Christ, not just another guy, and that He choose to die on the cross. It was not an accident. It was intentional and purposed.

As they entered the third room they were introduced to the wife of Pontius Pilate. She talked about the trial and beating of Jesus. She went into detail describing the horrible physical effects of the whippings, beating, and the cross on Jesus’ body. She also voiced the struggle Pilate had in putting Jesus to death as well as the response from the angry religious leaders. She also gave the kids a chance to recognize the free gift Jesus offers each person who believes in Him. She ended with Jesus on the cross, which led them to the fourth room.

The fourth room was dark. The only light in the room came from the fireplace and the 20 or so small candles around the room. This room was for reflection and confession. It gave them the chance to think about what they’d learned, heard, and seen. It also gave them a chance to take time to confess any sins they were aware of in their life. As they felt ready they could take their papers up to the fire and burn them, symbolizing the removal of their sins. The focus of this room was to enter into the presence of God with a humble attitude, presenting their sins before Him and asking for forgiveness of their sins.

The final room they transitioned too was the main room where we talked to them about the resurrection. The fact that Jesus is a risen Lord is huge when you compare Christianity to other world religions. We serve a risen Lord and that point was really emphasized. We also gave them a chance to accept Christ as their Savior during a time of worship and singing. The evening was capped off with the Lord’s Supper being celebrated as a group. We told them the Biblical requirements for partaking in the Lord’s Supper and then gave them an opportunity to participate in it just as Jesus and the disciples had.

The whole night went really well and a lot of the kids gave us great feedback. They really liked the whole experience and said it helped them gain a clearer understanding of the true meaning of Easter.

It’s not all about candy, bunnies, egg hunts, and getting dressed up. I hope we were able to get that point across throughout the evening. Many of the kids say they know what being a Christian is about, and in their head they may know it, but when it comes to living it out so many of them go the opposite way. Their lifestyles, thoughts, and actions can often cause you to scratch your head and wonder what they were thinking. Yet, when I look at my life I can often see the same pattern I see in some of the kids. I say one thing and yet live out something else. It’s really annoying but most of the time I don’t see it until after I have done it.

I want to challenge you all to take a look at your life and see if there are things you do that are the opposite of what you say you believe. We are known by our fruit and if we are producing bad fruit than we are not living the life we are called to do live.

I hope you all have a great Easter! Enjoy the weather (if it’s nice at your house because its not gonna be good outside weather here!!) and enjoy spending time with your family!